
Other than that, I've shopped, eaten out at some fabulous restaurants (you can't get dim sum like this in Charleston), taken Lulu to a dog park near where people play Frisbee golf (not kidding about that...they're out there almost every day), been to a dog birthday party, backyard barbeque, went to a great local book store, and am planning on attending a local music awards show this weekend.
After living in Charleston in my happy little comfort zone for so long, I have had to motivate myself to get out and about. It's too easy to work all day and come home at night, hit the couch, and watch TV or read so I don't have to interact with strangers. And I do that on most nights. I'm still homesick and I don't think that will ever go away. Sometimes I'm so homesick, it's hard to talk to my mom or my sisters or nieces or my best friend back home because I miss them so much. I've made up my mind to be happy here, but I haven't found "my people" yet. I think the older you are, the harder it is to make friends. But now I have a checklist of events and places to go - even if it's just me and my laptop, I'm definitely going to get out and about more.
And you know that "Keep Austin Weird" slogan? I love that it's weird. I love that there are kite festivals and frisbee golf and a celebration for Eeyore's birthday. Summer is going to be brutal, but I'm going to stop obsessing over my upper arms and wear tank tops. I'm going to get a parasol or sun umbrella. I might even wear hats.
You're my hero!
ReplyDeleteI know what you mean about finding "your people." You should blog out Austin's weirdness and your search for your people. It could be like a game. This is my secret agenda to get you to blog more. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks, Suz! And Angie, that is a great idea. I'm better "on assignment" than when I'm not. I used to live for deadlines!
ReplyDeleteI completely agree about how hard it is to find "your people" when you move to a new place. It takes a while for a new place to really feel like home, though -- and you're still pretty new to Austin. I love that you're getting to know your new city, though, and I can't wait to come for a visit!
ReplyDeleteI can't wait for you to come visit too! There is some great shopping here - you'll love all of the funky little boutiques. I still don't have a roommate, so the "guest room" is open!
ReplyDeleteI know this might not work for you but I FINALLY have a ton of local friends after living in a town for over three years. I set up my own craft/book club and because there is nothing like this in the area, I have met a load of girls JUST LIKE ME! It's been so much fun and a bit of work but totally worth it. Our club is now 30 strong and growing...
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